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Why Does Rav Avigdor Miller Quote the Words of the Controversial Figure of Josephus?

19/7/2026

 
Jew knowledgeable of authentic Jewish history retain a certain and legitimate mistrust of the words of Josephus.

Fully aware of this, Rav Avigdor Miller occasionally quoted Josephus (Rav Avigdor Miller on the True Story behind the Kamtza bar Kamtza Fiasco & What It REALLY Means) – and with a valid reason.

​Here it is:
Was Josephus a Traitor to His People or Not?


Now, Mr. Goldgrass asked: If we quote Josephus in praise of the Jewish people, is that not a contradiction to his role, in which he appears to be a traitor?

And the answer is, whether Josephus was a traitor or not, this is discussed, but if he was, Josephus couldn't conceal from the generations that were to read his works, he couldn't conceal the truth of the excellence of the Jewish people.

And the truth is just the opposite.


If a man like Josephus, who was a politician and a soldier – and he was a big politician – if he spoke so warmly, not only of the Torah, he spoke of the Torah very warmly, he spoke, however, very warmly of the virtues of the Jewish nation, then that is the best evidence that it was so.

Josephus is a very important witness for us. If the Chachomim praise our nation, so you have to deduct a little bit, maybe, the Chachomim are partial to our people, but when Josephus speaks – and Josephus, after all, was on the Roman side, and he praises our nation, that if we would make a compendium of all the good things he said about our people, it would be the most patriotic kind of work.

It's remarkable what he said about our nation.

​And that's because it was the truth.


(July 29, 1976)

Source:
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It's reminiscent of the Roman general who described Jews as "barbarians" because they opposed slavery.

(The slavery described in the Torah lies closer to the English-language term "indentured servitude," rather than the brutal dehumanizing situation most English-speakers imagine upon hearing the world "slavery.")

I can't remember which general or the exact quote and context, but while we can dismiss the general as a Jew-hater, his criticism of us is actually praise.

It shows the quintessential idea of tzelem Elokim (the Divine Image of God imprinted on every human being) and how the idolatrous occultist Romans could not conceive or even respect such an idea.

It shows how we were innately more moral than the Romans, despite clinging to an idea that some of the Roman elite saw as "barbarian."

For more about this, please see this post:
The Truth about Josephus and How to Read His Writings, according to Rav Avigdor Miller

UPDATED: Rav Avigdor Miller on the True Story behind the Kamtza bar Kamtza Fiasco & What It REALLY Means

18/7/2026

 
​Note:
This post contains a massive and very important update at the end.
Basically, the main lesson we must derive from the fiasco of Kamtza and Bar Kamtza is to resist embarrassing anyone in public. 
It's not the kind of sinat chinam usually taught with this story.
According to Rav Miller, it's very specific: Beware of embarrassing anyone in public!

(And if you have issues with quoting Josephus, as you should, then please see 
Why Does Rav Avigdor Miller Quote the Words of the Controversial Figure of Josephus? and The Truth about Josephus and How to Read His Writings, according to Rav Avigdor Miller.

The Story of Kamtza & Bar Kamtza like You've Never Heard It Before

Please read what Rav Avigdor Miller said about the whole Kamtza & Bar Kamtza fiasco, which ended up being the last straw prior to the Churban (Destruction).

It's...WOW.

https://torasavigdor.org/qa/rav-avigdor-miller-on-kamtza-bar-kamtza-a-new-look/

It could be you've never heard the real story told like this before...

Rav Avigdor Miller on the Truth behind Kamtza bar Kamtza

Q [from an anonymous questioner in the audience]:
​
How can you claim the Jews at the time of the churban were so righteous? We know the story of Kamtza bar Kamtza and that the Beis Hamikdash was destroyed because of sinas chinam?
​
 A [from Rav Avigdor Miller]:
​
Now, there’s a big misconception that the public has about a certain Gemara in Mesichta Yuma.

In Mesichta Yuma (9b) the Gemara asks:

Why was the Beis Hamikdash charuv? Why was it destroyed?

​When we say Beis Hamikdash, we mean not only the Beis Hamikdash – it means the whole setup of Jewish independence and commonwealth. 

So the Gemara says that the first Beis Hamikdash was destroyed because of certain reasons and then the Gemara asks:

​What about the second Beis Hamikdash? Why was that destroyed? And the Gemara says because of sinas chinam; because of causeless hatred.

Now, on this there is a great deal of misconception.

I was once in a Orthodox school, a very Orthodox school, and I saw on the wall there were two pictures. One was a picture of a concentration camp. Jews in the concentration camp and they’re being thrown into fire, the crematorium.

And next to it was another picture of Kamtza bar Kamtza in ancient Yerushalayim just before the churban; and the host was ejecting him from a banquet – Kamtza bar Kamtza was being ejected from a banquet. Kamtza bar Kamtza was dressed in a black hat and a kapote; he had a nice beard too.

He was represented as a decent person, maybe even a talmid chochom, and he was being ejected from the banquet.
 
Those were the two pictures and there was a chain with links connecting them; the picture of Jews being killed in the camps linked to the picture of Kamtza bar Kamtza in ancient Yerushalayim. 

And the people who made these pictures understood it as follows:

The Gemara says (Gittin 55b) why was Yerushalayim destroyed?

Because of Kamtza bar Kamtza.

Because a man once wanted to make a banquet and he invited all the talmidei chachomim to the banquet and he sent his servant to invite a certain sage named Kamtza.

But the servant made an error and he invited Kamtza bar Kamtza, a different person.

Now, when Kamtza bar Kamtza came, the host said, “I’m sorry but I didn’t invite you. This is a private gathering and you therefore must leave.”

So Kamtza bar Kamtza said, ”You’re embarrassing me. Let me stay and I’ll give you the cost of my meal.”

But the host wouldn’t allow him to stay at the private banquet and after some haggling Kamtza bar Kamtza offered to pay for the whole banquet if he would be allowed to remain.

But the host said no and he took him by his garment and he led him out; he ejected him. And for that, the Beis Hamikdash was destroyed.

So, underneath the pictures was a statement printed in big letters, that the Beis Hamikdash was destroyed because of sinas chinam; in other words, these two stories were equated.

They were trying to say that because Kamtza bar Kamtza was ejected, that was sinas chinam, and that was the example of the causeless hatred prevalent in Yerushalayim. 

And therefore that caused a chain that led up to the crematorium, to Jews being burned in Hitlerland.

Now, that really is what most people think. That’s the picture they have.

They put together these two statements, the story of Kamtza bar Kamtza and the statement of sinas chinam that destroyed the Beis Hamikdash and they understand that this is what caused all our troubles from then on. 

It’s a terrible misconception!

​It’s a slander on the Jewish people! A terrible error!

First of all, who was Kamtza bar Kamtza? Who was this character?

Josephus, in his Vita – that’s his own life story – he relates that Kamsus the son of Kamsus was a Herodian.

Which means he was a rasha; he was a member of the clique of the house of Hurdos.

And the house of Hurdos, the Herodians, were our enemies. They were our bitter enemies; we suffered tzaros from them without number.

Now the Gemara tells us that this host had sages at his banquet table. He made a private seudah for the chachomim to gather.

​And we know that נקיי הדעת שבירושלים לא היו יושבים אלא אם כן יודעים עם מי היו יושבים‏ – The pure minded sages of Yerushalayim never sat down at a meal or a meeting unless they knew who was present.

It was a principle of theirs. They didn’t believe in sitting down in a moshav leitzim. 

And sometimes there could be one person, a leitz, who can spoil everything.

One careless person who shoots his mouth off, he spoils the whole atmosphere.

So the נקיי הדעת שבירושלים, the people whose minds were pure, would only associate with other pure minded people. They wouldn’t be impolite to others.

​They didn’t demonstrate that they were standoffish, but they made it their business not to be around when the wrong people were around.

Now, this host invited the pure-minded people, the chachomim.

It says in the Gemara that all the chachomim were there.

And who marches in?

None other than Kamsus bar Kamsus who is famous as a member of the Herodian clique – an enemy of the sages.

He was a moser, an informer, and he was delighted that he was invited there.

Because now he could sit and listen to the deliberation of the sages.

That’s what he wanted – to sit and listen in so he could know their plans.

​This would be his chance; otherwise he could never get in because the sages would never discuss things publicly.

But here some mistake was made and Kamtza bar Kamtza hastened to utilize it.

So he hurried and dressed up and he came to the banquet. Here he is!

And he wants to sit down with the chachomim and listen in to what’s going on.

And naturally he’s going to bring all the information he has to the Herodian clique who are waiting in order to undo any good things that the chachomim wanted for do for the people.

So the host was now in a dilemma. What could he do?

Either he could send away all of his guests, or he could send away this informant, this rasha.

Now, you have to understand that the Torah is very just.

The Gemara is extremely fair.

In fact, the Gemara leans all the way over for fairness.

And so when this low character – and he was a low character.

That we know because what did he do subsequently out of revenge when he was ejected from the banquet?

​He went to the Romans and he told them that the Jews are in revolt against you.

That’s the worst thing you can say. It’s like throwing a spark in dynamite.

Because the Romans were afraid of revolt and they punished most cruelly any small sign of revolt.

So this man Kamtza bar Kamtza was an enemy of the Jews; you could see that.

​Because he started all the trouble.

And still when this host got up and he remonstrated with Kamtza bar Kamtza and finally he had to take him by his lapels and lead him out, our sages said it was wrong. It was a sin.

Now how was it a sin?

That’s too much for us to understand. What would we have done?!

Otherwise Kamtza bar Kamtza would be sitting there and the sages wouldn’t say a word.

​The whole evening would be wasted.

You couldn’t open your mouth when this informant was sitting there.

And still, such is the judgment of the Gemara. It’s fair and severe, and therefore it says there that this is what caused the destruction of Yerushalayim.

It doesn’t mean that this is really a sin; that this was the cause.

Yerushalayim would have been destroyed anyhow.

But when Hakodosh Boruch Hu sought a match that would set the fire, He chose this to be the match. It was a poetic justice.

Don’t misunderstand this! It wasn’t this that caused the Churban. This was just a spark that set off the fire.

Yerushalayim wasn’t destroyed because of this.

But when Hakodosh Boruch Hu had already decided forty years earlier to destroy Yerushalayim – that’s what the Gemara says; forty years before He had already decided to destroy Yerushalayim – so He waited for an opportunity and He utilized this opportunity to teach a lesson.

So when Kamtza bar Kamtza was heard to have gone to the Romans and he started the trouble, it was a parable; it was meant to be used as a lesson – that we shouldn’t have embarrassed him. 

Now we don’t really understand that lesson – it’s too fair for us to understand.

But that’s what the Gemara does – the Gemara uses a magnifying glass and the smallest thing is magnified as if it’s a sin.

You shouldn’t have ejected him; you should’ve let the evening be ruined. And all the sages should have just sat there in silence and that’s all.

You couldn’t cancel the banquet. All the food would have gone lost. There were no refrigerators in those days. All the food would go lost! It can’t be helped. It was an expensive banquet but it can’t be helped.

Don’t put a man to shame.

And that’s why this poetic lesson was utilized – to teach the people a lesson. You shouldn’t have embarrassed him.

So what is this business that sinas chinam, that causeless hatred caused the churban.

It says in the Gemara that causeless hatred caused the destruction.

So many Jews think it means that the Jews hated each other, that frum Jews hated each other. That’s what they think.

They think that the whole nation at that time were all frum Jews, all talmidei chachomim, and they were all busy hating each other. And that’s why the Beis Hamikdash was destroyed! 

But that’s as silly as could be. It’s not realistic at all!

They didn’t hate; the frum Jews loved each other!

In those days, the whole nation, the Am Hatorah was divided into followers of Beis Shammai and followers of Beis Hillel. The entire Jewish nation was divided into those who followed Beis Shammai and those who followed Beis Hillel.

​These were the two great assemblies of Torah sages.

There wasn’t anybody else that was of the shelomei emunei Yisroel, of frum Jews. We’re not talking about the reshaim. 

​
True Jews all were talmidim of Beis Shammai or of Beis Hillel. 

And the Gemara (Yevamos 14b) says openly that the talmidim of Beis Shammai and Beis Hillel loved each other.

These two schools, although they had different opinions on some things, even on very important things, but they loved each other. שהיו אוהבים זה את זה – They loved one another, לקיים מה שנאמר – in order to fulfill the possuk of, האמת והשלום אהבו – Love the truth but love peace too. 

They loved the truth; that’s why each one stuck to his opinions but they loved peace too.

And the Gemara talks about that. The Gemara dilates on how they loved each other.

Now if Beis Shammai loved Beis Hillel and vice versa so Beis Shammai certainly loved Beis Shammai. And Beis Hillel loved Beis Hillel.

It doesn’t make sense that Beis Hillel loved Beis Shammai but they didn’t love their own people. It’s ridiculous.

The Jewish people loved each other – there was no sinas chinam.

I once saw that an adam gadol wrote – I won’t mention his name – he was misled, and on the strength of this ma’amar that the Beis Hamikdash was laid waste because of sinas chinam, he wrote that unfortunately the frum Jews were too critical of each other and they sometimes suspected each other of not being frum enough.

Now, that’s just taken out of thin air! There is no authority for that at all anywhere!

So what does it mean that there was sinas chinam? 

Who were the ones who hated for nothing?

​These were the Tzedukim.

There were irreligious Jews there too who were not of Beis Shammai or Beis Hillel. The Tzedukim hated the sages! That’s the sinas chinam!

You’ll ask a question: So because the Tzedukim, the wicked people, hated the sages, therefore the Jewish nation is responsible?

The answer is yes, because they were also Jews.

When Jews are wicked the entire Jewish nation is responsible.

That’s a great principle in the Torah. We are treated as one individual. Kol Yisroel areivim zeh la’zeh – all of Yisroel are guarantors for one another means that we’re one body, we’re one person.

And therefore we were held responsible for the misdeeds of Kamtza bar Kamtza and the Tzedukim and all those who hated the chachomim.

Do you want that example of hatred?

The New Testament is an example of the hatred towards the sages.

If you want a textbook which is full of venom against the sages, that’s the New Testament.

Because the New Testament is full of great anger, endless anger against the Pharisees. Constantly, it’s reiterated.

​The Pharisees are promised that there’s only one place where they’re going to go when they’re dead. When they die they’re going to a certain place and it’s reiterated over and over again in the New Testament.

The chachomim are called vipers and snakes. They are the worst kind of hypocrites and criminals.

Now, who are the Pharisees?

The Pharisees are Rabbi Dosa ben Harkinus, Rabbi Eliezer ben Hurkinos, Rabban Gamliel Hazaken and his son Rabban Shimon ben Gamliel, Rabbi Yochanan ben Zakai.

All these famous names; they are our luminaries, our teachers.

Their lives we study. It’s their words that inspire us. M’pihen anu chayim! 

There’re the best of our nation! They’re the cream of our nation.

​They are the ones who the New Testament condemn us as the worst.

Now you people may not believe it; it may seem exaggerated to you.

But the fact is that the New Testament mentions other nations too.

It mentions a lot of people. It mentions the Romans but it has nothing bad to say against the Romans.

​It mentions the Greeks but there’s no criticism against the Greeks. It mentions the Samaritans, the Kusim, but no criticism of the Samaritans.

​It mentions the Sadducees too; no criticism of the Sadducees.

But when it speaks about the Pharisees, then they let loose; they turn around and let loose like a skunk that gives the best that it has to offer and the New Testament pours a torrent on the chachomim. Not only once!

All the time; all the pages of the New Testament are splattered with that poison against the chachomim.

But they were all Jews however. In those days they were all Jews; they were still Jews.

And so if you want to know why the Beis Hamikdash was destroyed, so the Gemara says that there was hatred, sinas chinam.

Whose hatred? Not the sages! And not the people who followed the sages!

They wouldn’t hate anybody – they were the ones who were being hated!

That’s the point that’s missed by all the writers. All the writers who speak on this subject misunderstand it. They blame our poor people for sinas chinam.

There’s no remez anywhere that there was causeless hatred among the sages and their disciples.

But there was a very great hatred against them!

The Saducees hated the sages!

And the gemara says certain types of amei ha’aretz were also sonim; they hated the sages.

It’s a gemara in Pesachim. You remember what Rabbi Akiva said?

He said, “When I was an am ha’aretz, if I would get a hold of a sage I would tear him to pieces.”

​He testified later that that’s what he thought when he was an am ha’aretz.

It was these people – they’re the ones because of whom the Beis Hamikdash was ruined.

Because our nation has to be perfect!

And when we have in our body-politic, in the commonwealth of the Jewish nation a certain poisoned minority, so that means that the body is not healthy and therefore Hakodosh Boruch Hu had to make a change of climate.

​And that’s why the Beis Hamikdash was destroyed.

TAPE # 107

Rav Miller sums it up here:
Q:
Was the story of Kamtza bar Kamtza really the reason for the churban?

​A:
The Gemara tells us in more than one case – the Sages say that – when something had to happen, Yerushalayim had to become choruv.

It was already long ago foreordained, for whatever it was, but the immediate cause, the spark that ignited the fuse was made by Hakadosh Baruch Hu to be a lesson.

So Bar Kamtza was put to shame and he was the one who kindled the spark by going to the Romans and denouncing the Jews, so Hakadosh Baruch Hu made that in the form of poetic justice.

So, when we look back and we see that the Churban of Yerushalayim began because of this incident, we are supposed to learn from this how careful we must be not to embarrass others, especially in public.

For instance, they say, the Sages say, that our forefathers went down to Egypt in exile in the days of Yaakov Avinu, because of the dissensions and the brothers were jealous of the coat that Yosef HaTzaddik wore.

Now the truth is, if not for that incident they would have gone down to Mitzrayim anyhow.

​Their stay in Egypt was part of the plan of Hakadosh Baruch Hu. Only it was so arranged, it was so manipulated that this was what started it rolling.

So that we should look back and learn that envy and dissension have to be abhorred, because look what they caused.

But it wasn't the dissension of Yosef and his brothers that caused it. They would have gone to Egypt anyhow and the Churban Beis Hamikdash would have taken place anyway.

It wasn't because of Bar Kamtza.

But Hakadosh Baruch Hu made it turn out so that this was the spark that set fire in order we should look back and say, be careful not to embarrass your fellow Jew.

Be careful with him, certainly in public. In public, don't embarrass anybody.

​Tape #776
So that's the massive lesson many people miss when learning the story of Kamtza and Bar Kamtza.

We need to think and think again before saying something that might embarrass ANYONE in public – even if we intensely dislike them, even if we're right to dislike them, and even if everyone agrees with us.

​Again (and I'm speaking to myself just as much as anyone else, if not more): 
Be careful not to embarrass your fellow Jew.
Be careful with him, certainly in public.
In public, don't embarrass anybody
.

Bilvavi on Parshat Devarim: Dealing with Your Falls, Failures, and Disappointment in Yourself

17/7/2026

 
Picture

For those who can't read the image, it says (Devarim 1:41):

BILVAVI: LIVING THE PARSHA

 וַתַּעֲנוּ וַתֹּאמְרוּ אֵלַי, חָטָאנוּ לַיהוָה--אֲנַחְנוּ נַעֲלֶה וְנִלְחַמְנוּ, כְּכֹל אֲשֶׁר-צִוָּנוּ יְהוָה אֱלֹהֵינוּ; וַתַּחְגְּרוּ, אִישׁ אֶת-כְּלֵי מִלְחַמְתּוֹ,  וַתָּהִינוּ, לַעֲלֹת הָהָרָה
“Then you raised your voices and said to me, ‘We have sinned against Hashem’” (Devarim 1:41)

FAILURE

When one fails in his attempts to serve Hashem, and feels deep remorse and frustration, this becomes a powerful force that inspires him to improve his ways and to recharter his life towards spiritual growth.

IN PRACTICE

His driving force for change will be in accordance to the extent of his remorse over his errors and failures.

Thus, regret is the foundation for teshuvah. It is the motor that propels a person towards teshuvah and genuine change. 

​EXPANDED BASED ON EDITORS' UNDERSTANDING

​A PERSON’S TRAVEL

Those who sincerely desire to succeed in avodas Hashem will often suffer great disappointments.

​A person who eagerly desires to daven with kavanah, or to study well, or to improve his middos, etc., when he fails, he often feels broken and disappointed.

​The pain of failure can be unbearable. But this can be a good thing.

He can utilize his remorse to do better the next time. Thus, the very fall itself becomes the foundation of his ascent.

PRACTICAL APPLICATION

When a person experiences the remorseful feelings that come along with failure, he is now at a threshold, and there are two paths before him.

He might tell himself, “You see, you really aren’t good. You proved it to yourself again. You will never get it right.”

If he thinks in this manner, he will probably fail the next time as well because he has lost hope in himself.

However, a wise person will take his deepest feelings of regret and use them as a catalyst for growth.

He will say to himself, “Look at how upset you are. Failing really bothers you. What can you do to improve, so this won’t reoccur?”

When one thinks in this manner, there is hope.

​When the remorse is intense, it acts as a catalyst for him to truly improve his ways.

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Rav Brevda: Why Tisha B'Av Bothers the Erev Rav and What Real Jews Can Do to Push Back

15/7/2026

 
Please see the previous post here:
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Rav Shlomo Brevda on the Erev Rav

Why Do the Erev Rav Care So Much about Tisha B'Av?

As noted in the previous post linked above, our true Torah Sages added chumrahs to areas in which the Erev Rav sought to infiltrate.

In the original article, Rav Brevda notes the proliferation of stringencies connected to Tisha B'Av. This indicates an area into which the Erev Rav sought to make inroads.

​But why Tisha B'Av?

As we know from other posts about the Erev Rav that appeared on this blog (based on authentic Torah sources), the Erev Rav love seeing Am Yisrael sad, depressed, gloomy, despairing, and even frightened. Am Yisrael feels physically weakened from fasting.

(A Jew isn't despairing or frightened on Tisha B'Av, but they certainly look that way. So it should make the Erev Rav delighted.)

Rav Brevda explains:
Now, why should the erev rav care about the fact that once a year, for a few weeks we are mourners?

If I were from the erev rav, chas vecholiloh, I think I might be very happy to see the Jewish people lying on the floor in black, in shrouds, crying and weeping...Yet it seems that the erev rav have been preventing us from doing this.

This is a very, very important issue.

The erev rav have been trying very hard, and I want you to know that in this generation they have succeeded, you could say, by ninety-five percent.

The mere fact that this essay will enlighten you, is a siman that they have succeeded, because I have nothing really new to say.

Everything is written in texts that are generally well known—but hardly anyone knows it in this generation.

The erev rav have put us to sleep spiritually in the whole inyan of aveilus hachurban, and I'm going to prove it.​

The Traditional Jewish Nefesh regarding Tisha B'Av

We Used To Cry On Tisha B'Av
​
Our ancestors two generations back, used to weep literally with tears on Tisha B'Av. It is really only two generations—I'm not older than that, and I've seen it with my own eyes.

​I remember as a boy seeing men on Tisha B'Av when they were saying the Kinos, sitting on the floor with tears streaming down their cheeks, literally.

My father, z'l, told me that in his town in Poland, from Rosh Chodesh Av, anyone who came to that town in the Nine Days felt that he came to a house of mourning.

He said this was true in any town that had a sizable Jewish population—even if the majority were not Jewish.

In the whole town it was visible: in every Jewish shop, in how a Yid was walking in the street not smiling and hardly talking, not buying luxury goods.

It was clearly visible, almost tangible.

It sounds like a dream of two thousand years ago, but this is how it looked about fifty or sixty years ago in Klal Yisroel all over the world!
​
Rav Brevda recalled a time when they forced him to say a dvar Torah at bris milah in London and he told over the following famous idea from Chazal:
I mentioned the gemara that says that those who mourn over Yerushalayim will be present at the deliverance, and those who don't mourn will not be present.

There was an old man sitting there, an Orthodox Jew who had never heard this Chazal before.

​When I said these words, he grabbed the chair, and was about to fall off.

He was from an old generation, and he took the gemara to heart. He was not complacent. 
That's how Jews used to be in the not-so-long-ago past.

​Reading this makes me nostalgic for a society I never knew.

Am Yisrael: The Nation that Never Falls Entirely

​Today I would ask you, on Tisha B'Av to try your best to cry.

You're going to hit a zero.

Just imagine a housewife who forgot to put lemon juice into her salad.

She looks for a lemon, turns the refrigerator over and she finds one rotten, dried-out lemon.

Nevertheless, she's going to try her best. So she starts to squeeze and squeeze and squeeze. Nothing comes out. Why?

It's dry. Try to cry on Tisha B'Av. See if anything comes out.

It proves my point. We literally can't. There is something missing in our hearts.

​The erev rav have succeeded. It's not them alone.

The goyim have been trying very hard throughout the generations, but the erev rav have completed the work for them.

We Are Down But Not Out

But we are a nation that never reaches rock bottom.

The difference between our nation and umos haolam is:

Other nations reach total destruction; Klal Yisroel will never reach total destruction.

"Nafla lo suchal kum besulas Yisroel."

This is a posuk which literally means, "You have fallen, you cannot arise, daughter of Israel."

But Chazal interpret it differently: Nafla lo suchal linpol yoser:

Daughter of Israel, if you have fallen so deep that you cannot fall any deeper, kum, now you can arise, besulas Yisroel.

I once said a whole shiur on those words. Why can't we fall any deeper?

Because falling deeper means you've gone through the hole and that's it.

We are a nation that never falls entirely.

We have a limit.

​In contrast, anyone who has studied history knows that there are nations that once ruled the world, but today there is nothing left of them except a few broken stones.

We always bounce back, we always get up. And it's a posuk:

"Nafalti kamti — Al tismechi ayavti li ki nafalti kamti." We say to all our enemies, "Do not rejoice when I fall."

Why? Because you've seen other nations fall that were your enemies and they never got up.

But when I, the Jewish people, fall, I do return. So do not rejoice over it.

You know there's a Midrash that tells us (at the end of Devorim) that as Moshe Rabbeinu's neshamah was leaving his body, the Satan began to rejoice.

And the good mal'ochim said to the Satan,

"You're making a mistake. Moshe Rabbeinu's neshamah has just left, and Yehoshua ben Nun has just at this moment become an astounding genius of Torah and mitzvos, and he's taking over gantz Klal Yisroel."

And the posuk is brought:

"Ki nafalti—If I fall — kamti—I arise again."

The erev rav have dealt us a very great blow in this generation.

Our defeat now means nothing to us.

We get up, we fight, and B'ezras Hashem, we will be mekabel ponim Moshiach Tzidkeinu bekarov.

​But we must return to the true appreciation and aveilus, the mourning over Churban Yerushalayim.

There is a gemara in Masechta Taanis which says, "Kol hamisabel al Yerushalayim zoche veroeh besimchasah. Vechol she'eino misabel al Yerushalayim eino roeh besimchasah."

​Those who mourn over the destruction of Yerushalayim and the Beis Hamikdash, and that the Shechina has left us—all of those will be present at the rejoicing of the rebuilding of Yerushalayim.

Those who do not mourn will not be present at that day and in that age.

The above words of wisdom and Torah appeared in a series in the English edition of Yated Ne'eman in 1993, entitled A Powerful Series on Avelius and Awaiting the Geula by Rav Shlomo Brevda.

The UKforTorah email-newsletter received permission to republish the series via their email-newsletter.

​For more fascinating, enlightening, and mechazek Torah hashkafah from the words and thoughts of real talmidei chachamim, please send an email to [email protected] with a request to subscribe.

Rav Shlomo Brevda on the Erev Rav (Plus the Best Reason I've Ever Heard to Explain the Increasing Chumrahs)

15/7/2026

 
In a recent email from UKforTorah, they reprinted with permission a series that appeared in the English edition of Yated Ne'eman in 1993, entitled A Powerful Series on Avelius and Awaiting the Geula by Rav Shlomo Brevda.

Born in America in 1931, Rav Shlomo Leib Brevda eventualyl rose to become one of the Gadolim who came out of America.

After the Churban Europa, Rav Brevda joined the newly escaped Mir yeshivah, and then Rav Aharon Kotler's Lakewood yeshivhah, and then he moved to Eretz Yisrael in the 1950s, where he became close to the Brisker Rav and met with the Chazon Ish several times, along with other great talmidei chachamim.

He was known as great in mussar and he also excelled in his study of the writings of the Vilna Gaon to the point that other rabbanim considered him a renowned expert on the Torah of the Vilna Gaon.

His tremendous ahavat Yisrael and knowledge and encouraged a great many Jews over the decades.

​Always a truth-seeker, a striking dynamic occurred in his youth:
...as a boy, I was very puzzled about something. I remember someone showing to me on the front page of the newspaper (it could have been The New York Times) about how the head of some "great" world Jewish organization was our spokesman before the President in Washington on this and this day, in this and this year (in
the 1940s).

I saw the face of this person. He had a nice crop of hair, no yarmulke, and didn't even look like he's part of our people, and I said to this person, "What's his name?"

And he said, "Rabbi So and So."

And I said, "That's a rabbi? Without a yarmulke?"

I was told, "One doesn't ask such questions in America."

And I began asking people who is this So and So Rabbi.

They said, his practice of Torah is the following.

Millionaires built him a temple, and he declared on the first day, the chanukas habayis of that Temple, that Shabbos is on Sunday, and not on Saturday.

That was number one.

Number two, there are no restrictions on Shabbos. He himself didn't fast even on Yom Kippur, and ate pork. 

His Yiddishkeit consisted in being good with certain non-Jewish minorities in New York and fighting for their cause. And this was his great thing in life.

But with the backing of millionaires and The New York Times, he was able to become the president of this, and this, and this. 

He would make demonstrations against Hitler when the true rabbonim said not to.

​After the War, those who survived the camps said that every time he made a demonstration in New York, Hitler would take it out on Jews.

It was unbelievable how Hitler would punish the Yidden the next day.

If this "rabbi" had any children, they were meshumadim.

I was becoming very surprised. I found out that he had a competitor, another irreligious "rabbi."

So I began asking questions — they are our leaders?

Leaders in the Golus

Years later in Lakewood, I saw the sefer, Even Shleima, quoting the Gaon.

The Gaon said that in golus these erev rav take charge of our people.

They are the spokesmen. Things began to become very, very clear indeed.

The Gaon says the following: there are countless descendants of the erev rav mingling among our people.

There is a gemara that says of certain people with no charity, that they came from erev rav. A Yid has kindness in him.

So we learn from all this, that the erev rav are people with different traits of personality.

They do not have neshamos of kedushas Yisroel.

From all we know, in Eretz Yisroel today, some of those who are rodef our people, who hate bnei Torah, who hate Torah and mitzvos, who get power in their hands, who, when they see a Yid on Shabbos keeping Shabbos they begin to boil—no one knows if that person today is a Yid or he's an erev rav.

We don't have the power to decide this.

But things begin to become slightly clearer once we know this.
How much things have stayed the same...

We know and we knew at the time that the demonstrations of the mostly secular Leftists in favor of a release myriads of terrorists to free the hostages in Gaza actually made things worse for the hostages.

It prolonged their torturous captivity.

The demonstrations really were anti-Bibi protests – because those people yearned to have someone even worse in charge.

And before that, the demonstrations to exchange over 1000 terrorists for the one secular Left-leaning Gilad Shalit – which directly led to the largest mαssαcre of Jews in Eretz Yisrael since the Second Destruction of the Beit HaMikdash.

As we learned in an interview discussed in this post The Truth behind the 5-Year Shalit Phase & Release-Exchange, Plus Who REALLY Called the Shots during That Time (You Won't Believe Who & To What Extent...), Sinwar loved Gilad Shalit's father and the demonstrations because they all played right into his hands and achieved for him what he couldn't achieved while sitting in an Israeli prison (where he received many rights and fawning treatment).

A Brief History of the Erev Rav

Rav Brevda explains the origins of the Erev Rav and how we got to where we are today:
The Erev Rav

I once saw a quote from the Vilna Gaon, zt'l, saying the following:

When we were in the desert, there were a group of individuals who trailed along with us when we left Mitzrayim.

They are the erev rav, people who even today you can say of them that they can't make up their minds — should they become true believers and practicing Jews, or shouldn't they? — but they trailed along.

Eventually they took advantage of a situation.

Moshe Rabbeinu was gone for forty days, and hadn't returned by the time that everyone thought he would.

They panicked.

​They were so used to idol worship that they caused the Cheit HaEgel, the creation of the Egel, and they brought Klal Yisroel to the cheit.

At that time, they were of no significance whatsoever amongst our people.

The erev rav is a topic which is not discussed very much in the gemara and in midroshim, but in the Zohar HaKodosh and in Tikkunei Zohar there is a wealth of literature about these erev rav.

They are still around, and they are of extremely great significance.

And the Gaon, taking together all the places that they are mentioned in the Zohar, says that from generation to generation they have done two things.

They have disguised themselves and mingled amongst Klal Yisroel and married amongst us, and they have been climbing steadily from generation to generation, until, with the destruction of the Beis Hamikdash and as we went into Golus, they have literally taken charge in various generations of our people.

They are very often our spokesmen in the halls of the kings and presidents.

One of the Best Reasons Ever Given for Increasing Stringencies

And with this, Rav Brevda explains to us the prevalence of chumrah, of stringencies, over time.

Many people complain about what they consider stringencies today, which did not exist by very great people around 70-100 years ago.

Sometimes, it's not so true what they say. Sometimes, they people they considered oh-so frum were not so frum and there were problems due to the lack of that particular stringency.

But sometimes, their observation is correct.

And here, Rav Brevda offers one of the best explanations I've ever heard for this increase in chumrah:
Counteracting the Erev Rav

The Gaon says something amazing:

Why did the chachamim have to add chumros in each [generation]?

Why are there so many additions in Shulchan Oruch to things that were not in the gemara a thousand years ago, a thousand five hundred years ago?

Why are there so many more restrictions today?

The Gaon says simply, the erev rav, this fifth column among us, have been destroying chunks of Torah and mitzvos throughout the generations.

And in order to counteract them, the rabbonim in every generation, who have open eyes to the truth and to our true spiritual needs, must add restrictions.

They have to build a much taller wall, the Gaon says, in order to repair what the erev rav are destroying constantly...If the Chazon Ish added restrictions, thanks to that there are still are shomrei Shabbos today in Bnei Brak.

If not for his restrictions, who knows what would have happened in the past forty years with all of the gezeiros and these anti-Torah feelings in the cities bordering on Bnei Brak?

We can only thank all the rabbonim, all of our spiritual leaders, for saving us from the destruction of the Torah and keeping us in one spiritual piece until Moshiach will come.

Now that the Gaon has told us that added restrictions were caused by destructive acts of the erev rav in every generation, we begin to understand certain situations.
Needless to say, the emphasis remains on "the rabbonim in every generation, who have open eyes to the truth and to our true spiritual needs" – not random show-offs or posers, or even well-intentioned but misguided rabbis.

He specifies chumrah determined by rabbanim with "open eyes to the truth" and "to our true spiritual needs."

To see the next part by Rav Brevda, with a special focus on Tisha B'Av, please see:
Rav Shlomo Brevda on the Erev Rav (Plus the Best Reason I've Ever Heard to Explain the Increasing Chumrahs)

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Stories of Good Jews: How to Cultivate Authentic Honesty according to the Torah & Utilize the Lion Aspect of Yehudah

14/7/2026

 
​This an updated and expanded post for how to utilize the Aryeh/Leo/Lion astrological mazal inherent in the month of Av.

Yehudah represents the aseh tov ("do good") aspect of the Lion symbolism, as described toward the end of the post.

While the Lion aspect of Av also manifests as "attacking," it also means to proactively leap forward – do good!

Yehudah's Lion aspect also manifests as seeing the Truth – and in Judaism, contrary to the non-Torah hashkafah – truth comes only when you see the positive aspect of something.

Everything Hashem does is beneficial in some way, no matter how painful or excruciating.

So even as you see a negative aspect or even a mostly negative dynamic or person, you're not seeing them accurately until you find a good aspect within.

Some people fear doing this because they mistakenly assume that seeing a good aspect excuses or justifies or whitewashes a person or behavior.

Not so.

This assumption and fear also derive from a non-Torah way of thinking.

Someone or something can be mostly bad with a drop of good and still deserve punishment, rejection, or eradication.

This also means that we see the good in our fellow members of Am Yisrael, including the different legitimate groups that sprouted in response to the growing needs of the times (the mussar movement and its varieties, such as Slabodka, Novardak, etc.; Chassidus and its varieties, such as Breslov, Lubavitch, Satmar, etc., and so on).

(Movements like Reform, Reconstructionist, Conservative came to distort and destroy Judaism, regardless of the innocent or well-meaning intentions of their followers. So they do not represent a legitimate stream of authentic Torah Judaism.)

So let's take a look at different examples and stories, plus further clarification, regarding how to utilize Yehudah's Lion aspect of Av to the fullest...

Experiencing the Chain of Different Yet Unifying Traditions

​One of the fondest memories of my youthful Shabbats in Tzfat consisted of going up the unending staircase (Tzfat is built on a small mountain) and hearing Lecha Dodi sung in a variety of different melodies, depending on what shul I happened pass at that moment.

Different chassidic groups, different Sephardi groups, different Ashkenazi groups – each one sang a different melody for Lecha Dodi.

Some I recognized, some I didn't, but I loved them all and I loved the experience of hearing the same Kabbalat Shabbat prayer service with different melodies developed (or woven from those of the original ancient Tribes of Am Yisrael) throughout the centuries.
 
This modern-day coming together of different groups and their customs always creates the feeling of us as different links (or pearls!) within the same precious necklace.

​If one is missing, the whole strand falls apart.
 
And I’m far from being the only one who feels this way.

Enjoying Our Differences

Many, many frum Jews enjoy an opportunity to connect with other frum Jews from a different ethnicities and nationalities.

In fact, I lived near a Yerushalmi chassidish neighbor who loves hanging out with Sephardi neighbors. Then she started inviting Russian baalei teshuvah couples for meals.

​She’s also cheerfully and strictly makpid with her own children that they should never denigrate another group.

It's obvious how fun it is for her to do this.


After she came back from a trip to different holy graves of Rebbes in Eastern Europe, she enthused about how a Breslov woman on the bus inspired her with a steady stream of Breslov thought throughout the ride to Uman.

​“I said Tikkun Haklali at the grave of Rebbe Nachman!” she bubbled. “And I saw 
orot (spiritual illumination) – yes, really!”
 
And she is part of a chassidus reputed to oppose Breslov (although Rav Levi Yitchak Bender insisted this wasn’t true, as stated by the former Rebbe of that chassidus himself and recalled by Rav Bender in Words of Faith).

​And this reputation (however mistaken) of opposition to another Chassidus doesn't stop her from appreciating that some Chassidus.

A Minyan in Every Flavor

A Litvish charedi kollel guy from America spent his first month of Shabboses in Eretz Yisrael davening in a different shul for each tefillah.

He experienced different kinds of chassidus and different kinds of Sefardi...and he thoroughly enjoyed himself.

​If you saw him, you’d think he is a very quiet serious-but-nice extremely conventional Litvak.

And he is!

But that doesn’t contradict his healthy appreciation for other frum groups.

Spending Shabbat in a Totally Different Hashkafah

​My son, who learned in a standard Sefardi charedi yeshivah (and now learns as a married father in kollel), twice spent Shabbat in Kiryat Arba-Chevron/Hebron and enjoyed every minute of the warm, vibrant Judaism of his Kahanist hosts.

Everyone treated him with such warmth and no one agonized over why he was in yeshivah as opposed to the army (as sometimes happens in religious communities outside the charedi community).

He experienced a lot of warmth, acceptance, and good old-fashioned ahavat Yisrael combined with tremendous ahavat Torah – the divrei Torah never stopping flowing from the host and his family.

One family there in particular adores the mitzvah of hosting guests (which quite suits the place, being so near Avraham Avinu, who was the epitome of hospitality).
 
My son doesn’t want to join that community; he’s happy where he is.

But he received tremendous enjoyment and inspiration from warm, caring, frum Jews who subscribe to a different hashkafah.

Getting to Know the Hilltop Youth Never Shown by the Media

This same son also spent a Shabbat in Bat Ayin among the much maligned Hilltop Youth, whom every branch of media portrays as drunk, stoned, wayward bums who possess a fanatical Zionist streak.

​And some of them are like that, unfortunately. (As if many other groups of people around the world are not like that...duh.)

But most of them are not.

Many observe things others (sometimes including their own parents & community leaders) do not wish to see.

Many are thinkers & idealists.

Anyway, my son ended up in Bat Ayin for Shabbat & he stayed with some Bat Ayin boys in an ancient Judean ruin they'd made habitable. (The boys' families lived in regular homes nearby.)

These boys both knew & cared about all the Shabbat halachot for living in an ancient stone ruin with minimal electricity, including keeping the food warm over Shabbat, etc.

​One of the boys' fathers stopped by before Shabbat to make sure their electric wiring continued to function well.

It made for a very cool experience – living in ancient Judea similarly to how our ancestors did in the same kind of structure constructed of local stones.

Also, our son – an obviously charedi yeshivah bachur – experienced total acceptance from these non-charedi-yet-religious Bat Ayin residents because Bat Ayin residents maintain a solid sense of achvah (siblinghood) with their fellow Jews.

You keep Shabbat & learn Torah? Well then, hey, you're one of us!

That's their attitude.

Like my son, his youthful hosts never served in the IDF – but for completely different reasons.

My son received an exemption based on his yeshivah attendance and now married and learning in kollel, he refuses to serve for deeply religious ideological reasons (which – let's be honest – protect Am Yisrael in Eretz Yisrael much more effectively).

(Just to prevent confusion between the older sons periodically mentioned on this blog: Son #1 served in the IDF and keeps re-enlisting in the reserves; Son #2 happily remains in the charedi yeshivah world. A younger son enlisted around 3 years ago, has since been discharged, and regular readers read about him here: Our Personal Experience with the War that Started on Simchat Torah 5784/2023.) 

The IDF refused to let these Bat Ayin boys serve, stating the boys held views too far to the Right.

(It stunned me when I heard the IDF rejects eligible young men because of views deemed too far to the Right. But it happens a lot. Chew over that idea for a minute...)

Anyway, these boys displayed wonderful character, commitment to Jewish Law, and detachment from materialism.

Here's how I see them:

They crave authentic Judaism.

And their choice to live in the original housing & lifestyle of the Judean Hills of Eretz Yisrael, along with their open hospitality?

It all emanates from their desire for authenticity.

With their good middot & knowledgeable commitment to Jewish Law, they are clearly not as portrayed in the media.

Our Satmar Brothers

When I asked my yeshivish explorer-son about patterns he noticed throughout his hitchhiking travels prior to marriage, he expressed positive experiences with Jews from all different groups.

Then he stated, "But the Satmarers are the friendliest & warmest, hands down. Each and every time I run into a Satmarer, he always acts like I'm his brother."  

Satmar chassidim represent another much-maligned group.

My son encountered them as they drove around Eretz Yisrael on their business trips.

(Even though a Satmar community exists within Eretz Yisrael, my son always runs into davka the American Satmarers visiting on business.)

My son and his friends look like Sefardi yeshivah bachurs – a very different group than Satmar chassidim.

Yet the Satmar chassidim my son encounters never seem to feel my son is different than them.

Intrigued by their very different outlook & customs regarding the political situation in Eretz Yisrael, my son nicely asked the Satmar driver about it as they rode in his car.

In a friendly, casual manner, the Satmarer acknowledged the opposite viewpoint held by nearly everyone else, then briefly explained the Satmar view in the same unimposing and friendly manner.

Another time, my son and his friends spotted a Satmar chassid at a gas station in northern Israel.

They politely inquired whether they could join him. His eyes widened in pleasant surprise as he said, "Of course! If there's room in my car, then why not?"

It's hard to convey the exact tone and facial expression of the Satmarer, but my son described it as if it surprised the Satmerer that they felt the need to even ask.

Meaning, he acted as if he didn't understand why, upon seeing room in the car, they didn't automatically pile in as he finished paying for the gas.

It's just as if you would have no problem finding your brother – not just any brother, but the brother you REALLY like – suddenly in your car.

You'd be pleasantly surprised, right?

So that's the vibe this Satmar chassid gave off to them.

Tongue-in-Cheek Note:
Having exemplified all this Satmar generosity & brotherhood, it should be noted:
If you see a Satmarer, you still shouldn't just get into his car without permission.
Even if he's as generous-hearted & welcoming as this Satmarer, it could still be he needs to get somewhere urgently, or pick up other people.
​So you should still ask.
🙂

Seeing the Full Picture according to Torah

Yes, I realize dysfunctional frum people exist.

And we certainly suffer from problems in our communities.

But the secular and gentile media (including blogs) discuss these obsessively (and a bit hopelessly) using exaggeration and distortion – and do so with great relish and self-righteousness

Likewise, the frum media also dose this, but with a great deal of recrimination and self-flagellation.

More recently, both UKforTorah and Tears of an Angel (h/t Chanaya Weissman) revealed how certain parts of the frum media do this intentionally, to weaken and misguide the frum Yidden.

The reason why this blog often focuses on good people doing good things isn't because my brains consist of half-baked noodle kugel, preventing me from seeing the flaws.

Instead, all my reading of authentic Torah sources point toward focusing on good people and good actions as the correct & healthiest way to relate to the world.

(This also includes identifying a good aspect in an otherwise bad person or situation – which does NOT excuse or justify or whitewash an otherwise bad person. Please see here for more clarification: How to Avoid being a Pathological Pollyanna.)

While the non-Jewish world only considers you honest if you mention the negative aspects among the positive, the study of our Sagely commentaries on Tanach opened my eyes to the fact that Judaism only considers your portrayal honest if you mention the positive among the negative.

You see an aspect of this in how the Great Sanhedrin could only sentence a person to execution as long as the guilty verdict was not unanimous.

Meaning, if not one Sage on the Great Sanhedrin could not see a way in which the accused was innocent – in other words, finding some kind of merit – then they assumed they lacked the full story.

The "Lion" Aspect of Dan vs. The "Lion" Aspect of Dan

​Finally, dwelling solely on the passive sur m'ra (turn from evil) prevents one from ever achieving the proactive aseh tov (do good).

In other words, the secular world's focus (including in psychology) of "Don't do this" and "This is bad" and "This is appalling, so never do it" and focusing on who has a personality disorder and judging people by their flaws (ADD, OCD, ADHD, BPD, etc.) and who is a psychopath and look at all the bad and crazy people in the world, and so on – this represents overkill in the sur m'ra (turn from evil) mode.

​As Rav Itamar Schwartz explained in his talk for the month of Av (linked below), there are 2 types of "lion":
  • Dan
  • Yehudah

The lion of Dan (interestingly, the serpent generally symbolizes Dan) manifests in a combination of lion and serpent.

If you only focus on the sur m'ra, using lionlike powers to repress your yetzer hara, you will certainly be a very good person, but you will not be able to rise from the dust (just like a serpent cannot raise itself from the dust).

​Meaning, you won't be able to fulfill your full potential.

We need to be proactively good – aseh tov! – and leap from the place in which we remain stuck – like the lion of Yehudah.

The lion of Dan excels in guarding the boundaries and fences.

(This relates to gevurah – the power of restraint.)

The lion of Yehudah excels in leaping over the walls to proactively act – a positive and loving "attack" mode – before being acted upon.

(This represents the aspect of malchut – royalty. A true king is incredibly powerful. Regarding authentically Jewish malchut, this invincibility comes from Hashem, Who is Truly All-Powerful. It's the power to do good & come out victorious.)

Yes, Chazal tells us of Mashiach ben Dan.
​
​(Please see: Q&A with Rav Itamar Schwartz of Bilvavi regarding the Birthpangs of Mashiach and Mashiach ben Dan and Who is Mashiach ben Dan – What is His Role?)


But the lion of Yehudah manifests as the real and final Mashiach ben David (descended from Yehudah and Tamar).

Emulating the Lion of Yehudah regarding Others

In part, this means we need to look at the good in others.

We need to see the people who ARE investing in goodness and exhibit goodness – and not just the people who make a mess.

We need examples of the right thing to do – what TO DO, and not just what not to do.

And while we needn't whitewash or deny the negative, we need to also look for positive role models and follow their lead.

Sure, we can look only at the dysfunctional people.

Yet is it fair to ignore all the people who stretch themselves to do good?

Is it fair to ignore the people who DO treat others with compassion?

Is it "honest" to ignore all the people who behave with compassion and respect?

For example, there's a charedi city in Eretz Yisrael where a Lubavitcher chassid prepares a Kiddush table laden with refreshments for all the wayward youth hanging out on the streets (and often making trouble).

He feeds them and engages them. (This also helps keeps them out of trouble.)

He does this every Friday night.

Should we close our eyes to this religious Jew who invests so much time, caring, and expense in his fellow Jews – and just focus on the people who don't?

A lot of charedim treat these kids compassionately.

​But they tend not to make it into the media.

Is it honest to completely ignore all these good-hearted people, pretending they don't exist?

These are just a few examples.

Emulating the Lion of Yehudah with Ourselves

​Likewise, we also need to view the positive qualities in ourselves.

We need to know that underneath everything, Hashem has gifted each & every one of us with a beautiful, pure neshamah that not only yearns to do good, but knows & loves what is good.

And we need to know that others possess this too.

We need to seek it in both ourselves and others.

It's true that some apparent Jews lack this.

Some contain primarily Erev Rav souls.

And some aren't even Jewish, but their actual status got lost over time (or was hidden or confused – maybe not even so long ago).

But before we dismiss people has lacking an authentic Yisrael neshamah, we should search for their innate holiness & goodness (and our own innate holiness & goodness!) through eyes of real honesty & compassion – eyes that take in the whole picture, and not just part of it.

For the full discussion of the lion aspects of both Dan & Yehudah, plus how we should express these aspects, please see:
https://bilvavi.net/english/rosh-chodesh-mazal-008-av-lion

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The Yahrtzeit of Rashi falls on Erev Rosh Chodesh Av, the 29th of Tammuz

14/7/2026

 
The yahrtzeit of Rashi, Rav Shlomo Yitzchaki, falls on the last day of the month of Tammuz, the 29th of Tammuz, Erev Rosh Chodesh Av.

Where would Am Yisrael be without Rashi?

Born in the year 4800 (1040 c.e.), there's a tradition that Rashi was a descendent of David HaMelech.

Because we learn Rashi so often, he feels familiar and close to us – very much alive.

It's hard to believe he lived almost 1000 years ago.

If possible, taking a moment to learn at least one line of Rashi is a great idea.

It's also good to light a candle l'ilui nishmat Rav Shlomo ben Yitzchak, may his merit protect us.
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How to Deal with the Mazal of Crabby Tammuz & Savage Av

13/7/2026

 
Over the years, I've learned to dread Tammuz and Av.

But I'm trying to view them as the opportunities they actually are, and not as the obstacles and frustration they end up feeling like.

A while back, I wrote a post describing my experiences in Tammuz and explaining the astrological effects based on the Kli Yakar:
How to Fight the Crabby Mazal of Tammuz

Later, the Kli Yakar mentions the effect of Av: the Lion.

Lions tend to savage their prey, which is why hatred and other person-to-person sins came to a head with the Destructions of both Temples on the 9th of Av.

And while we don't justify or excuse bad behavior, we can at least find a merit for people if they start acting wonky in Tammuz and Av:
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"Oh, they're not innately awful. It's just that they're having a hard time warding off the influence of Tammuz and Av."

And even though the Gemara tells us that astrological effects do not decide a Jew's destiny, the effects are clearly there.

So what's going on?

And what are we supposed to do?

(Hint: The answer to this particular question is partly answered in the link above.)

Dealing with Tammuz

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The mazal of Tammuz influences a person to start moving backwards or sideways, just like a crab.

This means that in Tammuz, you need to push yourself harder just to maintain equilibrium.


Picture yourself strolling down a sunlit path with a gentle breeze on your back.

Now picture yourself marching down an overcast path with hurricane-force winds at your face.

You need to brace yourself and push a lot harder to keep going forward, right?

That's Tammuz.

The fun part of it is that when the hurricane-force winds suddenly stop in Elul, all your pushback ends up flinging your forward, spiritually speaking, into the loving arms of Elul.

Elul stands for "Ani L'Dodi V'Dodi Li - I am my Beloved's and my Beloved is mine."

​(The acronym is clearer in Hebrew: אלול - אני לדודי ודודי לי )

Anyway, the same idea holds true for Av.


Dealing with Av

As the Kli Yakar explains in Parshat Devarim:
That was in the month of Av whose sign is Aryeh (the Lion) because each person became like a lion who longs to attack his fellow
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If in Av you feel like ripping someone apart, give yourself the benefit of the doubt and recognize that it's likely the influence of Av working on you (and not that you are an Godless raging bull of a person) and then do something to counteract those lion-esque tendencies:
  • Talk to Hashem about your feelings
  • Search for a good point in that person and mention it to Hashem
  • Pray for that person to do teshuvah from love
  • Pray for yourself
  • Actively do chessed
  • Go out of your way to help others (doesn't matter how small the help is; even letting a car in front of you or not careening toward that ideal parking spot while cursing under your breath when you see another car going for the same spot makes a huge difference, spiritually speaking)
  • Go out of your way to speak pleasantly or at least courteously in even the most trying situations.
  • Thank God for the situation, knowing that it's from Him and somehow good.
  • Whatever else you can think of

By the time Av ends and Elul begins, you'll automatically be in a higher place than you would be otherwise.

Elul is a time that is very welcoming toward and conducive for teshuvah and self-improvement, and sweetening judgements and decrees.

So the very frustrations and challenges of Tammuz and Av are actually the perfect preparation for Elul.

Wishing us all a lot of bracha (blessing) and hatzlacha (success)!

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Keeping pushing forward!

More Free Downloadable Graphics about Living in Eretz Yisrael for the Right Reason

12/7/2026

 
This post comes on the heels of:
  • "Anyone Who Resides in Eretz Yisrael Dwells without Sin" – What Does That REALLY Mean?
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  • Free Downloadable Graphics about Living in Eretz Yisrael for the Right Reason

Below, you'll find more beautiful graphics containing unique and inspiring artwork that are free to download.

(Courtesy of Yoel Berman, author of
Living in the Land: Firsthand accounts from Bnei Torah and their families, who received permission to pass on the evocative graphics.)

You can make them into magnets, posters, print them out to hang in your home, or even as gifts to loved ones living in Eretz Yisrael.

(I think it's also a nice thing to hang in young man or young woman's dorm for their year in Eretz Yisrael. Even if they're only here temporarily, they're still fulfilling the mitzvah and should feel good about it. And who knows? Maybe the temporary residence will turn into a permanent residence...)


All the following graphics contain the same Hebrew statement, which can be translated as:
I am residing in the Holy Land in order to fulfill the mitzvah of dwelling in the Land of Yisrael, as is written in the Torah "And you shall inherit it and reside within it."

Note:
Malbim defines the term yoshev as "remains unchanging" and yishuv as "permanent settlement/residence" – basically, the same idea.

So when the Torah sources discuss "yeshivat Eretz Yisrael" or "yishuv ha'Aretz" or "viyshavtem", it all refers to a permanent, unchanging residence within the Land.
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Used with permission. Beautiful attention to detail and beautiful use of light. The story of the above artist, Yiddy Lebovits of blessed memory, can be found here: Living the Prophecy, What a Zechiyah!

Yoel Berman also received insightful feedback from many Jews who appreciate the artistic inclusion of laundry hanging to dry because it reflects their experience of "דר" (dar/dwell/reside), connecting it to all the so-called mundane functions of daily living – but doing them purposely and purposefully in Eretz Yisroel.

​I love that too.

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Used with permission. And evocative image with its compelling use of detail and light, which portrays both our grief and hope represented by the Kotel, Shmuel Diamond's story can be found here: A Better Focus.

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Used with permission. Yehoshua Wiseman's story can be found here: Inspiration & Purpose. With his gorgeous use of color and light as evidenced in the above graphic, Yehoshua Wiseman also created the cover for the book:
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Enjoy!

Free Downloadable Graphics about Living in Eretz Yisrael for the Right Reason

11/7/2026

 
The following graphics are free to download, courtesy of Yoel Berman, author of Living in the Land: Firsthand accounts from Bnei Torah and their families, who received them from an acquaintance.

People have been printing these graphics, particularly the white one, by the thousands in Eretz Yisrael, and have been made into posters and magnets.
​It all started with a young ben Torah. After the idea formed his head, he went to clean a stairwell at a friend's place and, with the money he earned, printed the stickers.

He didn't ask anyone.
 
He didn't ask for money from anyone (no fund-raising campaign, nothing).

He just got up and did it.

From there, people saw them, copied them, and printed the verse in white, and on a variety of backgrounds, paintings and landscape photos of the Land of Israel, then distributed it in many places.

Everyone is invited to do it themselves. You can also hang the image on your wall or door at home.
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"Behold, I am residing in this Land in order to fulfill the mitzvah of yeshivat Eretz Yisrael and all the mitzvot of the Torah in their rightful place."

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Behold, I'm residing in the Holy Land in the name of the mitzvah of yishuv Eretz Yisrael as is written in the Torah "And you shall inherit it and settle within it."

This has been published by the descendants and continuers of the disciples of the Vilna Gaon to bring the Geula closer.
Enjoy! And feel free to pass them along!

Note:
The above adds to and should be understood by the principles explained in this post:
"Anyone Who Resides in Eretz Yisrael Dwells without Sin" – What Does That REALLY Mean?

For a review of Yoel Berman's beautiful book of compelling stories you don't commonly hear, please see:
Book Review: Living in the Land – A Book to Both Grace Your Coffee Table and Your Mind, Heart, and Soul
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